Success Formula
Author: Madhu

1 “THE SUCCESS FORMULA”

Success is for those who never feared about failure. It is one of the most significant qualities for a person to achieve success in his life. A person who aims at success should never have the fear of failure. If a person fear’s about his failure then he is never going to achieve success in his life. Let me first explain what is mean by success? Generally most of the people think that success is earning name and fame. If you people agree this then “I am sorry my friends” you are wrong. The success is not earning name and fame but it is one’s own self-satisfaction. Even a carpenter is successful person for me because we people cannot do the beautiful work of what he does with the wood. He does many beautiful works with the wood.

Now, let us see the success formula. [Here, I am going to use some of the terms that are already used by ANANT PAI the author of the book “HOW TO ACHIEVE SUCCESS IN LIFE”.] The success formula is “PARTHA”. What is the meaning for the word “PARTHA”? It is as follows P stands for the Positive thinking, A stands for Aim, R stands for Restraints, T stands for Training, H stands for Hard work, and A stands for Abiding interest. This is the main formula for success. One should have all these aspects otherwise one has to develop it. The word “AIM” is most important for a man to achieve success.

A person who has intention to achieve success should have AIM first; without AIM a person is considered as “Dead man”. A person is a successful person when he achieves his target. This doesn’t mean that we aim and small things in our life and say that we are successful person. Remember my friends “Rome was not built in a day”. We should take forward steps each and every day to achieve success. Let me first give you some of my suggestions to achieve success in life. Let me tell what I am going to discuss in this essay.

1.SET A TARGET.
2.ASK YOUR HEART.
3.BELIEVE IN YOURSELF.
4.HAVE A CHECK ON YOURSELF.

Let me discuss this one by one.


1. SET TARGET:
Each and every one of us should have a set purpose or target to achieve success. Without any aim no person can move towards success. Take daily at least one step forward towards goal. It will be more helpful to achieve the goal. As I mentioned earlier “Rome was not built in a Day”. Each and every step you make daily will take you to achieve success. If you think that right time will come to achieve the success then, sorry! My friend you are nowhere and never ever to achieve your target. This may hurt you but I never regret or never back my words because my words are true. If you have not set any target then please at least from now try to have some AIM and take necessary steps towards it.

Some person never wanted to have target or set any aim because they have failed for some times while they have tried for small activities; they never wanted to fail and get disappointment from it. Good, and I agree with them it is better not to get failed or disappointment by setting up a goal. But I want to ask them one question what is in the life without having any disappointments? This may wonder you but this is the fact when you aim at certain things you may get some disappointment.

If you are caring for those disappointments then you are never going to achieve success in your life. Successful person have failed and had lot of disappointments in their life. They are successful because they never give up their set purpose. As we all know that failure are stepping stones for success then what is there to get disappointment.

2. ASK YOUR HEART:

This is my suggestion for those who fear. What are going to be by fearing about the failures; No person can achieve success by having the fear of failure. If you fear about the failure then may I suggest one thing, which will help you to overcome the fear for the short time period. Later you will get rid of it and you will have confidence to go forward. Whenever you want to do something thing ask your heart whether it going to success are failure. It is always good to go with heart because the heart will show you the right path than your mind.

Many of the people will say that mind has a power of discrimination whereas heart doesn’t have; then how it would be wise not to go with the mind but to go with the heart. It is like this my friends the heart and mind will have a tug of war it is mind, which wins for those people who do not possess or have a habit of controlling the mind. In other words those people will follow who do not possess will power. It is the heart, which knows and understands your own attitude. So follow your heart that will lead you achieve success in your life.

3. BELIEVE IN YOURSELF:
Another important thing and foremost thing to achieve success in life is to believe in yourself. It is very important for every man to have self-confidence. Without this no body can move even a single step forward to achieve success in life. It is not only needed to achieve big targets or goals, but also for day-to-day life. Without it a person cannot do any job it is there with everybody unknowingly. For example: a person wants to do some job say removing a big stone, he moves it easily or with some effort even in this action the self-confidence is found there.
Let me explain clearly; it his confidence that makes him to move the stone form one plays to another. Like that self-confidence is needed for each and every work. Without it man cannot even survive. Whatever you do believe yourself. It is most important thing in life. The old religion (from SWAMI VIVEKANADA SAYINGS) say’s that “one who does not believe in supremacy” is called an atheist. The new religion say’s that he is an atheist “who do not believe in himself”. So, have belief in yourself. Without it nothing can be done.

4. HAVE A CHECK TO YOUR-SELF:

This is little bit interesting. This should be done with keen interest and strictly. It is not so easy, because most of us do not want to have check ourselves. It is not only ourselves but also we don’t want others to check us.
It is because we don’t care about ourselves. We take whatever comes and we don’t have strong willpower and strong aim. This check is not how to make you feel unease or to have control you. But this is to evaluate your potential. Let me explain little bit open. Most of the people may have thinking that have a check means that whether to watch how we act or react with ourselves, not thinking of sex, etc….
But this is not the idea. It very important that, how you react with others? Rather than how you react with yourself. And the next thing, thinking of sex is not a problem. Sometimes people feel very bad or thinking, “ they are only thinking about it” for them; I had to say this, most of the human races have this thinking and it is helpful sometimes. It doesn’t mean you should always have to think about it (sex). But it is also a part and parcel of life. Now, let me come to the point. Having check to your-self means you have to check your progress. What are the things are you doing for your progress? What are the steps to be taken to achieve the target? These are the checks you have to make to yourself. Which is necessary to achieve success.

CONCLUSION:
The success never comes in a day or week as it is. It is to be achieved by hard work. Let me and of course it is my duty to re-collect the major points. The main and foremost point to achieve success is to have a set purpose, then to believe your-self, then you should have to check out yourself. Above all it is thinking and having no fear to move forward is more important to achieve success. Let me wish you all the best. The last thing I have to say, do you the word WISH as miracle and powerful explanation. The word WISH is explained in this manner W for Will power, I for information base, S for set purpose, H for hard work. Do the things you want. Follow your heart. Remember it is THINKING, SELF- BELIEF, HARD WORK AND TREMENDOUS WILL POWER, which lead you to achieve success. ALL THE VERY BEST to achieve success in your life.

---------S.MADHU SUDHANAN---------







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NAME: MADHU
Self-Introduction: I Can do counselling for self-improvement.

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